Mister Molson has had a ruff week. His gums have started bleeding almost daily at some point. In a tribute to one of my favorite Simpsons characters, I have been calling him “Bleeding Gums Moley.” This post isn’t about me “feeling better”, and it’s probably “making other people feel worse”, just like Bleeding Gums Murphy’s Blues. But, this is his story. I can’t change it…I can’t pretend it away…All I can do is try to record it and share our experience to let other people going through this know that they are not alone.
At Molson’s most recent visit to the Vet, they took X-ray’s and had promising news. The cancer hasn’t spread anywhere. It is still concentrated in his nose. But, the tumor in his nose keeps growing and it’s impossible to ignore every time I look at his furry face. Another surgery isn’t an option. It’s growing faster than his skin can keep up with and is leading to his bleeding gums. He is now restricted to only soft food. No more bones or pig ears for the dog that used to carry around what looked like dinosaur bones for a week and then destroy them in two days.
But, just as Nicole said at his wedding a few weeks ago, dogs don’t worry about death. This past weekend he was swimming in a creek, begging for food at a picnic, rolling around in the grass, eating ice cream, and making new friends. Through wet eyes, I look at him and wish for that serenity. Hang in there Mister Molson. We still have some more adventures planned that I know you will enjoy.
Michele Gargiulo says
Thinking of you all …
Love you Mr. Molson ❤
I can’t even tell you how much it meant to me to met you bud, you sure are a special best friend.
Xo, your friend Michele the Painter
Tim Griffin says
Thanks Michele. The kids and I love the painting. It will hang in my house forever. It was so nice meeting you and hearing about all the things you are doing for dogs. Keep it up! We need more people like you in this world.
Holly M. says
Tim,
We are holding up you, your family and Mr. Molson in prayer tonight. We have owned six Goldens over the course of our 20+ year marriage and each one has been a special gift to us. We think what you are doing for Molson and his bucket list is awesome. Our two boys, Orca and Sunny, send him many tail wags and we send our love.
Tim Griffin says
Thanks Orca and Sunny!
Al Eargle says
Mister Molson has found his way into so many hearts, those who know him personally and those who know him via his adventures. Either way, he continues to show us dignity while suffering as only he knows. So much we can learn from “man’s best friend”. Thoughts and prayers, Mister Molson; you’re remarkable!!
Katie Leialoha Hartzog says
No matter if your post is happy or sad, I cry my eyes out no matter what. But at the same time, your post’s also always bring me joy, tears of joy! I can only imagine what you all are going thru… My heart is with you. I must say though, I absolutely LOVE the analogy (made me giggle a bit) & I can totally relate to what you said about “pretending.” <3
Tim Griffin says
Thanks Katie. It helps to know that Molson’s story is touching people. As hard as it is we can’t pretend it will last forever. But the memories will.
Katie Leialoha Hartzog says
I just hope you know Tim that what you’re doing is truly amazing. Your kids will get to tell this story forever & that’s what its all about. I once said to a friend, “you’re a good dad” and he said “I just try to be there for them” and I said “exactly, what else can you do?” Well, the answer to that (rhetorical) question is what you’re doing right now, Tim! You are going above & beyond and its wonderful! And don’t think that for one second that Mr. Molson isn’t noticing either! Here’s the proof: http://news.nationalgeographic.com/2016/08/dogs-know-saying-people-speech/ <3 <3 <3
Tim Griffin says
That’s cool that 4 Golden Retrievers were in the study! They might have skewed the results though. They are so smart.
Katie Leialoha Hartzog says
Lol! Tim I think I may have underestimated you! My apologies!! Hahahaha
Laura says
There is no way to prepare for what you and your family are going through but just know many thoughts and prayers are being sent to give you all the strength you will need to help you through this.
Mister Molson, many hugs and kisses being sent your way! ❤
Mary Jo Tremonti says
Keeping Molson and family in prays
Page Palumbo says
Mister Molson is a lucky boy to have such a caring family.
Khyra and Sometimes Her Mom says
As so many of my friends remind us DOGS IN THE MOMENT nor do THEY PAY ATTENTION TO THEIR XRAYS…
We’ll keep sending GReat thoughts and PAWSitive energies!
Hugz&Khysses,
Khyra’s Mom
Khyra and Sometimes Her Mom says
Make that LIVE in the moment !